29 10 / 2011

"The big difference between a warrior and a victim is that the victim represses, and the warrior refrains. Victims repress because they are afraid to show the emotions, afraid to say what they want to say. To refrain is to hold the emotions and to express them in the right moment, not before, not later. That is why warriors are impeccable. They have complete control over their own emotions and therefore over their own behavior."

Don Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements

28 10 / 2011

“First we need the truth to open the emotional wounds, take the poison out, and heal the wounds completely. How do we do this? We must forgive those we feel have wronged us, not because they deserve to be forgiven, but because we love ourself so much we don’t want to keep paying for the injustice.” ~ Don Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements